Does falling out of love really happen? Unfortunately, yes it does! At the beginning, you experience the feeling of being so in love but as days pass you surprisingly begin to realize that the feeling just isn’t the same anymore. Now you wonder… “Is the magic really gone for good? How could it happen that easily?”
Even though you cannot actually expect to still feel those butterflies in your stomach after a lengthy time of being in a relationship, it is important for you to stay in love with the person you consider special in your life. Loving someone and being in love with them are somewhat two different stories. Simply loving someone in not enough to sustain a strong, lasting loving relationship, however being in love creates a wonderful and joyful atmosphere to where as the relationship will stay nurtured for time to come.
Setting Expectations Toward Others Too High!
The good news is that you can actually avoid that dreary situation of falling out of love. To begin with, consider how high you’ve set your expectations. Are they realistic or something that can only exist in fairytales? You’ve always told yourself that you don’t deserve anything less and you’ve convinced yourself that you should always have what’s best for you. There’s nothing wrong with expecting good things for yourself, however if you really want to make your relationship work, then it’s time for you to detach your fantasies from reality. Read More………..
Written By: Jasmine Labbe
Source: Open Talk Magazine 12/12/2010